Talking to children about courage can be impactful. Here’s a step-by-step guide on how to have this meaningful conversation with a child.

1. Read a Children’s Book About Courage

Start with a children’s book that revolves around courage. Stories are powerful tools for teaching, and many kids can relate to the experiences of the characters. Look for a book with a character who faces a challenge, like standing up for a friend or overcoming personal fears. This narrative approach provides a safe space for your child to explore the concept of courage in a way that’s accessible and engaging. Here’s a list of children's books on courage. 

2. Ask Questions About the Characters

After reading, ask open-ended questions about the characters and their choices. Questions like, “Why do you think the character was brave?” or “How do you think the character felt when they stood up for their friend?” encourage your child to reflect on the character’s experiences. This also helps your child make connections between the story and real-life situations they may face. Discussing these questions allows them to think deeply about courage and how it can look different in various situations.

3. Share Your Own Personal Story About Courage

Personal stories can make courage feel relatable. Share a time when you were courageous, even if it was in a small way. Maybe you tried something new that felt intimidating or stood up for a friend. Be honest about how you felt during that time, whether you were nervous, unsure, or afraid. Highlight how acting with courage doesn’t mean the absence of fear, but the ability to keep going despite it. Sharing your story can inspire your child and show that courage is something everyone can cultivate.

4. Ask Your Child About Courage

Finally, invite your child to share their own thoughts and experiences. Ask them, “Can you think of a time when you were brave?” or “What does courage mean to you?” These questions allow them to connect their feelings and actions with courage, reinforcing the idea that they can be brave in their own unique ways. Listening to their answers without judgment encourages openness and builds their confidence.

Talking to your child about courage with stories, questions, and shared experiences helps them understand that courage isn’t just something superheroes have—it's a quality they can find within themselves too. This gentle exploration can empower your child to embrace courage in their everyday lives.

Jama and the Search for Courage is an African children’s book about courage. This story, great for children ages 2 -7, follows Jama on an adventure where he learns what it means to be brave. Through his journey, children can see how courage is not about being fearless, it’s about facing fear.